amazingkevin Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 (edited) All the years I've been a part of ssv I've lost two friends from something I said .the latest one hurt the worst. They blocked me from pm ing them. I Can't please everybody all the time, and i'm sure they took it wrong what I said.i just lost my cedar connection too for the same reason. The last thing I would want to do is mess up the free cedar , but it happened .he won't answer phone calls or texts. Today is a sad day to lose a ssv friend .To much ribbing is not good even amongst friends .DARN Edited December 2, 2013 by amazingkevin Phantom Scroller 1 Quote
Dan Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Kevin, it happens. I said something that upset someone but and he sent me a PM about it. I didn't realize what I had done until I reread what I posted. Then I saw what I had done - an innocent mistake. I did apologize and all was forgiven. I was glad that gentleman accepted my apology. To bad everyone couldn't be as understanding. amazingkevin 1 Quote
Ron Johnson Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Hi Kevin; Like you say. You can't please everybody all the time, but you can please everybody sometimes. People are all human, no one is perfect including myself. I wouldn't lose sleep because you've done your best to contact the person to try correct the error. What more can you do but move on. Tomorrow will be a better day. Have a great evening. Huntter2022 and amazingkevin 2 Quote
rjR Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Pobody si Nefetr Especially my typing! I am married long enpugh to know that regardless what you say, how you mean it, or what you meant!!!! SOMEONE can twist/ misunderstand it to be so different you don't even recognize it! If they do not accept an earnest apology---- forget them! Life is too short to worry about what can NOT be changed! You cannot change the past. BUT! You can change how YOU react to it! If you want a target for some of the "politically incorrect things that are really true ---- Throw them at me! I have been accused of many things that were never evn close to facts and survived very well! Remember we know not the reason. I have seen some of the "Vengence is Mine!" come true. Enough to believe it really is true. Especially my typing! amazingkevin 1 Quote
amazingkevin Posted December 2, 2013 Author Report Posted December 2, 2013 I'm feeling better all the time now ,THANKS EVERYONE Quote
wombatie Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Dont let it get to you Kevin the people who know you well know that you would never say anything to intentionally hurt anyone. Marg Nick@tinkers-cove 1 Quote
Nick@tinkers-cove Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 (edited) Dont let it get to you Kevin the people who know you well know that you would never say anything to intentionally hurt anyone. Marg I couldn't have said it any better, Marg. Unfortunately, typing words (text/PMs/emails) does not translate well into feeling and meaning. Vocal tones, and the way things are said are all too often lost this way when not actually talking. If you have apologised for the confusion Kevin...you have nothing to worry about. Edited December 2, 2013 by Nick@tinkers-cove Fab4 and wombatie 2 Quote
PaPa50707 Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Kevin, I agree with Dan. If we have a misunderstanding with anybody on this forum we should be PM to make it known. Just the short time I've been on this forum, I can't see you intentionally ticking some off. Quote
grampa Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Hey Kevin don't worry mate after over 4500 post and you have only upset two people and now they have spat there dummy out its there loss, no one puts more into this forum than you, smile make some sawdust and forget them......paul Phantom Scroller, bobscroll and Nick@tinkers-cove 3 Quote
amazingkevin Posted December 2, 2013 Author Report Posted December 2, 2013 you know everyones comments bring out the problem and the solution more and more .thats what ssv is for ,great job grampa i never thought about in 4000 posts !!!!!! Quote
Kepy Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Communication via the internet is the cause of a lot of miscommunication. It is not possible to say things the same as in person. Quote
amazingkevin Posted December 2, 2013 Author Report Posted December 2, 2013 i'm seeing that now ill have to reprogram Quote
Phantom Scroller Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Kevin stick and stones....................................... I just don't care, I am what I am take it or leave it. alright calm down it only a game. Roly PS: Don't change for anyone you great to me, fun fun fun. Quote
bobscroll Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Yes Kevin, You have my support!, We can all say something at times and not realize it has offended somebody, Communication that's what it's all about!!!, If all else fails then go down to the pub and have a Beer! Bob Quote
grampa Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 (edited) Yes Kevin, You have my support!, We can all say something at times and not realize it has offended somebody, Communication that's what it's all about!!!, If all else fails then go down to the pub and have a Beer! Bob Oh that's great Bob promote Alcoholism , next you will be saying we should call this place Alcoholics Anonymous village, that's it, not talking to you anymore your off my Christmas card list and if you try to pm me i will stamp my feet and slap my bottom with a rolled up copy of pencil making weekly, so there.............paul lol Edited December 2, 2013 by grampa bobscroll and Phantom Scroller 2 Quote
bobscroll Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 Paul, You are sooo funny! That's what we need, Humor, Laxative? I mean Laughter He He Ha Ha Bob. Phantom Scroller 1 Quote
keefie Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 I think Marg and Grampa got it right Kevin, you would never intentionally upset anyone. I don't think you have anything to worry about, in 4,634 posts you have only upset 2 people. There is only one thing to say about that - you're just not trying hard enough!!!! lol amazingkevin 1 Quote
Travis Posted December 2, 2013 Report Posted December 2, 2013 If you're only PMing that person, it might be that their PM inbox is full. It may only look like they're blocking you. amazingkevin 1 Quote
amazingkevin Posted December 3, 2013 Author Report Posted December 3, 2013 Oooooh TRAVIS YOU ARE THE BEST you always come thru and make things right. Patience pays every time. Wow I just took a deep deep breath, a sigh of relief. What would I do with out you babysitting me! :rofl:No matter what somebody has the answer you can accept here in the village. Quote
rjR Posted December 6, 2013 Report Posted December 6, 2013 HEY! I have been married fro so long that IF SOMEONE is not TICKED at me!!I wonder where I screwed UP! If you know the guy you face in the mirror never intended to hurt anyones sensitive FEELINGS' Do NOT worry about it! Those that want to hate me; take your number and stand in line! I actually do NOT CARE!!!!!! While growling at me they are leaving someone else alone and that person may actually CARE!!! SO HAVE AT IT!!! Phantom Scroller and keefie 2 Quote
Phantom Scroller Posted December 6, 2013 Report Posted December 6, 2013 Sorry I've got tears running down my face this post is so funny to me. HAVE IT! It's my British sense of humour I think. Kevin stop it. Roly Quote
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