I loved your story Angela. My husband and I have a very large bandsaw and I only use it about 3 times a year and everytime I have to ring him for him, for him to tell me how to start it. He loves buying me tools for Christmas. What he likes even more is to go into a hardware shop with me and for an assistant to come over and ask him if he needs some help, he just points at me and says " Your asking the wrong person, speak to my wife, she knows what she wants."
Marg