Just like you, I read every post in every thread I look at before I comment, give info., etc. - one being to see if someone else already gave the info. I was going to and second, to see where the conversation is going. If I don't agree, or don't like the way its going - I tend to move on without adding any fuel to the fire. I try to think about what I post BEFORE i hit the submit button. If it really has irked me, I will walk away rather than post something while upset or mad. It helps. It also helps to remember that maybe someone has had a bad day, has had the rug pulled out from them, has who knows what bad stuff occur and that is also impacting their life here as well, we never know what is going on in most people's lives. I tend not to share too much of that online. Others share it all. Neither is a good or a bad thing. Depends on the person and their needs but if I was having a really bad day, you are probably not going to know it unless you read a post and "saw" that I was not my "normal". I have been on other forums - some have gotten down right ugly - when that happened - I left or quit posting as did many others. I have been on others like this one where most everybody is great - but even then - there were misunderstandings, miscommunication, etc. - it was rare but it did happen. When it did, usually someone said "sorry" I misstated, was misunderstood, etc. and the air was "cleared" up. Yes, we are all entitled to our opinion but need to remember first, if someone didn't actually ask for it - maybe we shouldn't share it and if they did, then we should share politely and explain as best we can. Then we need to remember, if we asked for it - we may get answers we don't like but if that's the case, then maybe we shouldn't ask. I have been here for about a year now and I can say in that year I have seen very few issues. I hope it always stays that way. One of the reasons I love coming here.