Flying Dutchman are terrific. Mike delivers awesome customer service and if you tell him the type of woods and thicknesses you commonly use, he can help you select the best blades for you. I love the spirals, puzzle blades, and Ultra Reverse. Let us know what you think once you get them.
Control is a combination of quite a few factors. Saw vibration, skill, type of wood, type of blade, etc. If you are cutting 1/4" or thinner stock, you may want to try a smaller sized blade (#2 or #3 instead of #5 or #7). Also, selecting a blade with more teeth per inch (TPI) will give you a bit more control as well since they can't clear the sawdust as fast and the teeth are smaller. You could also try stack cutting a few pieces of the thin stock. This will provide more resistance and cause the blade to cut slower.
The short version of the answer is to keep trying different blades and practicing until you come up with what combination works for you. That's the best part about this hobby. There is no right or wrong way, it's all about what does the trick for you.
BArry