I wanted to offer a friendly reminder to villagers when making comments to visitors, both new and old.
Once we visitors find this place and start asking questions and trying to contribute when we can, our post counts increase fairly rapidly.
Just because our post counts increase, doesn't mean we are vastly more knowledgeable all of a sudden. We do have and get more information and process the responses to our questions, however our over all abilities and knowledge are no where near that of the many experts on this forum.
Take me for example:
I admit thanks to you all, I am lightyears' ahead of when I found this site and asked my first question - however, there are still so many things I've not tried and don't know how to do - Intarsia, segmentation, lettering, making patterns, wood selection, grain direction selection, staining and so much more!
So, I continue to ask what are beginner questions, simply because I still am a beginner (scrolling 2 months now) and perhaps I've come across a subject or technique I am unfamiliar with or can't find a good explanation elsewhere.
I'm posting this reminder because in response to a question someone asked, they were given the dreaded "You've been here long enough to know..." response.
Ouch...
May I suggest, even if someone has been here "long enough to know" that if you're not going to respond positively, perhaps it's better not to respond at all?
One of the first lessons my parents taught me was "If you can't say something nice about someone, don't say anything at all"
I know on forums, sometimes responses can be taken the wrong way simply because there is no emotion being submitted with the response. As well some people have thin skin.
I'm just saying...
One sure way to decrease the population of a forum is to be snobby with new members.
I've been here "long enough to know" many of the responses are in "fun" , but others may not realize it.
I'm not trying to start anything here, and apologize if I've offended anyone, but after reading the response I thought it warranted mention and...
Just a friendly reminder.
Thanks for reading
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