i hope I did not come across too one sided here. My wife often says to me, "why don't you go to your shop and cut?". You see, my wife does not do crafts, I believe with her arthritis it is just too difficult for such tasks. However, that said, she also enjoys television and spends a lot of her time watching shows she enjoys. I, on the other hand, do not enjoy television very much and do not watch much of anything on it. My shop time is very relaxing and enjoyable for me but not near as important to me as is my wife. Therefore I am trying to make more time with her as i see too many married people who are no longer 'couples', if you get my twist.
My wife is very considerate of my 'likes' and understands and encourages my scrolling. I am not a sports guy so I think it helps that I am not dominating the TV every weekend watching games, so that has never been a problem in our household. I just felt it was important to stay focused on each other more. We go out on the lake in our boat, where we have a dock right at the end of our patio and we also recently purchased a hot tub and we make a point to go into it together so slowly things are coming together as I plan. I still need to have more focus on her but it is coming around. We love each other and both cherish our time with each other. Neither of us are dominating or controlling people and we became 'thing' way back in high school and never looked back. I am one lucky guy to be sharing my life with Sharon. That is why I need to make the effort to help her understand that. I have not always had my focus in the correct spot. I am trying to change that
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