Thanks all for the great input. It appears I have not done anything wrong on this piece yet, but I picked up some info here that may speed up the process a little. I hope to get time to sand it this evening, and then spray again, maybe not, family is coming to let us have our grandson and their dog for a week. This is the first time he has stayed with us without his mom and dad so it is going to be interesting. I can't wait. I'll have him shooting guns, spitting tobacco, swearing, drinking whiskey and scrolling before the week is over.... He is six and a pretty darn good little boy.
Anyway thanks again for all your input. I have a lot to learn about good finishing.