Ray, when I am staining BB, I always apply a coat of WAX FREE or dewaxed shellac then lightly sand with 320 after it is completely dry, tack cloth then stain. It is important to use dewaxed shellac as waxed shellac does not play nice with water based or solvent based final finishes. The amount of sanding you do can be played with is you want a less consistent stain job, play with it and you will figure it out quickly.