I agree Jerry. My daughter has two boys and the oldest is 16 and has been giving them trouble. Things like not doing home work and being disrespectful, things like that. He is doing nothing that is against the law ( that we know of). I told her when he was around 8 years old that if she didn't clamp down on him it would get worse and she would be sorry. They are now clamping down on him, I just hope it isn't to late. So at least they have changed to some degree but I know other parents who are really bad at bring up their kids.
PS- The younger boy is doing fine. He sees how a butt his older brother is.